Words can be used to elevate things or put things down in delicate ways, and because of that they can be very useful, or dangerous, or f**king annoying.
Speaking with “decent” phrase to use in mind is annoying. Like a layer to hide your true thoughts, words are sometimes just a defense mechanism. With mastery you can easily excuse yourself, attack others or just create narcistic writing filled with unnecessary flowery words.
“Omg this is so beautiful/ awesome/ best of this & that”. Complaints come later. I hate that #.#
Don’t be passive agressive. Just say it. I love you/ hate you/fed up with you/bored to death. Just say it & free your mind.